It’s not that I don’t try to keep in touch. Just that as I start to drift apart from someone, it gets easier and easier to not put in that effort. Which is probably true of most people, at least to some degree. The ones that really hurt are the ones where I put in that extra effort and get nothing back. I can already use J (the one I wrote about originally) as an example - in the past five weeks I’ve reached out three times, and finally got back a “here’s my new number” reply, but didn’t actually talk about anything.
Here’s a question - should I be concerned that I’ve been through this enough times that it has become predictable? Makes me wonder if I’m the problem. ={
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Date: 2021-04-16 10:40 am (UTC)The ones that really hurt are the ones where I put in that extra effort and get nothing back. I can already use J (the one I wrote about originally) as an example - in the past five weeks I’ve reached out three times, and finally got back a “here’s my new number” reply, but didn’t actually talk about anything.
Here’s a question - should I be concerned that I’ve been through this enough times that it has become predictable? Makes me wonder if I’m the problem. ={